Comments on: What is the communication after one-night stand supposed to be like?

By: E.

E. — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:09:59 +0000

i dont think there is supposed to be communication after a one night stand.

By: Kesha S

Kesha S — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 13:49:24 +0000

well when it is a random person it is easy to go back to the way things were before you slept with them because you don’t know them…..because it is a friend different rules apply. Friends shouldn’t sleep with each other like that……number one because it becomes an awkward situation like yours.

By: meowww.

meowww. — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 05:54:31 +0000

instead of doing a one night stand thing do more of a continuous friends with benefits.
you keep your friends, get sex, and there’s no strings attached.

By: GoldBug

GoldBug — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 18:56:24 +0000

I did it once, about 14 years ago. Now, married for 13 years to my “friend” after a one night stand.

By: Semper Fi

Semper Fi — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:39:32 +0000

There are no rules. It’s a one night stand so don’t expect a commitment or any loyalty.

The difference with friends is that you still see each other and are you comfortable with the fact that you’ve seen each other ***** or whatever insecurities you both may have. Also, is this friend the type that would blab to those in your circle or put you down for doing something wrong or stupid.

One night stands only work if you are sure you will never see this person again and you both got what you wanted.

Also, never **** in your own pool.

By: hannahh

hannahh — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 05:49:22 +0000

Yeah, probably the same rules. If its at your place, offer them cereal in the morning. It’s only polite. Don’t cook something complicated unless you want to date them. If it’s at their place, leave, don’t linger forever…that’s too rude. Use their name when you say goodbye. And by the way, say goodbye.

By: Rome

Rome — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 16:29:29 +0000

if you guys are friends then most likely it will be very weird since *** does that to friendships. One night stands or just one night and don’t really communicate anymore with that person, so it will be having awkward convos.

By: Ashleigh

Ashleigh — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 13:31:36 +0000

You never hear from them again!

By: Megan

Megan — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 13:39:52 +0000

If you are already friends, then you shouldn’t let it obstruct your friendship. Especially if you were close. Make it clear that it’s not gonna happen again and it was an accident, etc.

By: IRISHme

IRISHme — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 06:54:11 +0000

dont just go like it never happened, have a laugh about it and be cool